{"id":585,"date":"2011-02-21T21:43:12","date_gmt":"2011-02-22T02:43:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mhsbasketball.com\/site\/?p=585"},"modified":"2011-02-25T19:25:27","modified_gmt":"2011-02-26T00:25:27","slug":"coach-juggling-team-fatherhood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mhsbasketball.com\/site\/archives\/585\/","title":{"rendered":"Coach juggling team, fatherhood"},"content":{"rendered":"<h6>Written by<\/h6>\n<h5>JERRY CARINO<br \/>\nSTAFF WRITER<\/h5>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/mhsbasketball.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/grundy.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"540\" height=\"441\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every night the game plan is the same for Montgomery High School boys basketball coach Kris Grundy.<\/p>\n<div>\n<div id=\"__gelement_66-content\">\n<p>Diaper changes? Check.<\/p>\n<p>Feedings? Check.<\/p>\n<p>Sleep?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;At this point, sleep is very optional,&#8221; said Grundy, whose wife Megan gave birth to twin boys on Jan. 26.<\/p>\n<p>Running a varsity hoops team is an all-consuming endeavor. Becoming a new dad twice over, right smack in the middle of the season, is excitement overload.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s 100 percent adrenaline,&#8221; said Grundy, who is in his sixth year at the Cougars&#8217; helm. &#8220;It&#8217;s tough \u2014 I&#8217;m not going to lie. Luckily for Megan and I our families have been great, really providing support. They know how passionate I am about basketball and teaching. I&#8217;ll get home and it will be time for feeding, which is great.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Jack Kristopher and Ryan David were born one minute apart in a scheduled C-section at Princeton&#8217;s University Medical Center. For four days Grundy handed over the team to his assistants, James Avalon, Joe Basford, Tommy Molarz and Pat Youraneff.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m lucky enough to have phenomenal assistant coaches,&#8221; Grundy said. &#8220;I sat the players down in the summertime and told them, &#8220;There&#8217;s going to be a point in the season where I&#8217;m not going to be there. You guys are going to have to step it up and look at the assistant coaches as if they&#8217;re me.&#8217; &#8220;<\/p>\n<p>The coaching community understands. Many of Grundy&#8217;s counterparts are young dads. Somerville&#8217;s Joe D&#8217;Alessandro became a mid-season father, also of twins, a few years back. North Plainfield&#8217;s Dave Hooker has a seven-month-old son, Cort, who already has been to a couple of afternoon games.<\/p>\n<p>Hooker considered resigning after last season but his wife Maureen talked him out of it.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;She said, &#8220;You love it too much, you have to stay with it,&#8217; &#8221; Hooker explained. &#8220;My wife is very supportive of me doing what I have to do. She understands the late nights.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Megan Grundy understood when Kris was glued to his laptop in the hospital room three days after the boys were born. He was listening to the student-run broadcast of the Cougars&#8217; game against rival Hillsborough.<\/p>\n<p>When Montgomery lost in the most excruciating way possible, squandering a 15-point fourth-quarter lead, Grundy reflected on something Linden coach Phil Colicchio had told him the week before: &#8220;When your sons are born, there&#8217;s going to be a time when you come home after a tough loss or a crappy practice, and you go into the nursery and your sons are there and you look at them and say, &#8220;You know what, who gives a (hoot)? Your sons aren&#8217;t going to care who won or lost. They&#8217;re just happy daddy is home.&#8217; &#8220;<\/p>\n<p>It made perfect sense.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Once we lost to Hillsborough, I knew what he meant,&#8221; Grundy said.<\/p>\n<p>Of course the competitive juices didn&#8217;t disappear. Grundy returned the following week and has the Cougars at 13-10 with the state tournament looming. The twins are doing well, with plush basketballs in their cribs.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Everybody got them for us,&#8221; Grundy said. &#8220;We probably had to return five or six.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The gift-givers were all thinking the same thing: This is a future backcourt.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s a basketball family,&#8221; Grundy said. &#8220;Now I&#8217;ve got to work on the frontcourt.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Written by JERRY CARINO STAFF WRITER Every night the game plan is the same for Montgomery High School boys basketball coach Kris Grundy. Diaper changes? Check. Feedings? Check. Sleep? &#8220;At this point, sleep is very optional,&#8221; said Grundy, whose wife Megan gave birth to twin boys on Jan. 26. 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